Thread: How to get your ex girlfriend back?

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tep 1

First off if you know what not to say and what messages do NOT work then you will save yourself a lot of headaches, heartaches, and psychological pain ships.
There are typically 2 types of ways people try to get ex's to talk with them and both of these are NOT the correct way.

The Pleaders - such as "_______, please, please call me this is the third time I have called you and I HAVE to talk to you."

The Emergencies - like this one "_______, this is an emergency please call me as soon as you get this."
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Step 2

Now I hope you can see what is wrong with both of these. If not here is a hint: They both sound desperate and like you have no other resort, you are down on your knees and you have no pride in yourself and no self-esteem.
Now I'm sure YOU have self-esteem, YOU have pride in yourself, but this is how you are portraying yourself to your ex by creating a sense of emergency or being a pleader.
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Step 3

What REALLY will get your ex to call, text, or IM you back is if you psychologically boost THEM up. To do this you need to create a sense of curiosity and self-interest. These are the two of the most powerful forces in the human mind. But the BIGGEST secret of all is COMBINING them.
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Step 4

In a friendly tone if you are calling him/her or if you are texting or IMing him/her DO NOT use all upper case letters. Use a combination of upper and lower letters.
The next conversation WILL work nearly EVERY time.
Say or Write something similar to the following:
"Hi _____. It's ______. I wanted to let
you know I appreciate what you did for
me. Call me because I want to thank you
in person."

The above creates curiosity and interest "What is it that I did?", "What is it that he/she appreciates?" Your ex won't be able to resist! And the message leaves your ex feeling good, he/she won't be dreading the call back to you.
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Step 5

Now You have those MAGIC words BUT before picking up that phone you need to at the very least know what it is that he/she did that you appreciate. It can even be something small but it needs to be plausible.
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Step 6

The most important thing you NEED BEFORE you actually ask him/her to return your call is a plan of WHAT you do before, during and after your ex returning your call. Please make sure it is a reasonable plan, because you CAN do more harm to yourself and your relationship if you do not handle the ENTIRE situation correctly.
Example: If your ex returns your call and then you start crying on him/her saying how much you miss them, asking them to come back, or begging/pleading to be with him/her again; THAT will make your ex just want to ignore you completely.
So, please create a plan BEFORE you call and ask your ex to call you back.
There is an excellent and VERY useful plan that you can look at in Magic Of Making Up System BEFORE you call. You can find the link to this in my resources.

Once someone breaks up with their girlfriend, if he still loves her, he’ll wonder if there is ever a chance that the relationship will get restored. A guy who sincerely loves his former love will always think of the wonderful times they had together and feel a strong emotional loss due to the breakup. The pain of the breakup can be very severe if it isn’t dealt with. The good news is that you can learn how to get your ex back and alleviate the intense emotional pain that you are probably feeling from a breakup.



Before you pursue the process of getting your ex girlfriend back, you need to do some self evaluation to see if there is a good enough reason to work hard at restoring the relationship. You really need to ask yourself whether or not you are truly in love with her and if you are willing to spend the rest of your life with her. If you can answer this major question with a yes, then you are definitely ready to learn how to get your ex girlfriend back fast.



If your ex girlfriend is the love of your life, then you really need to make a strong attempt to win her love back. If you truly think that she’s the one, then you need to do whatever it takes to get your ex girlfriend back fast before someone else steps into the picture.



Now before you take the steps to winning her back, you must make a strong effort to calm your emotions. Your mind and thoughts are probably racing all over the place, causing you to be anxious. Free yourself from anxiety before you even think about pursuing her. If she gages that your emotions are out of whack, then she will definitely be turned off and that will ruin any chance of you getting back with her.



Now there are many different approaches that you can take in order to get your girl back. Your first step is to decide which approach to take in order to win her back. If you are desperately in love with her, a simple approach would be to tell her how much you love her in a variety of different ways. Just write her a love letter, sing her a song, and even write a poem to her. Do a number of different things to truly demonstrate how much she means to you. That’s a simple approach to learning how to get your ex girlfriend back.



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